女孩子,长大了就要有个大人样

>> Friday, 9 April 2010

I saw this on FB and I find it very, very meaningful.

  1. 转身,要比眼泪快。
    这是必须。
    过了20岁,你必须学会承担难过,你必须知道难过它会过< 要经常对自己说,我也可以很勇敢。不要,千万不要,轻易在别人面前掉眼泪。 别人看多了你的眼泪,就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价。
  2. 你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事。
    可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人。请你不要觉得那是负担
    过了20岁,这是你生命中一个新的开始。
  3. 谁对你好,你就对谁好。
    人际交往永远是礼尚往来的。双向法则。没有人有义务对你好。
    过了20岁,擦亮眼睛,谁对你好,记得对他好。
  4. 明确自己的目标,为此奋斗。
    什么女子无才便是德,要嫁得好,首先要有才。
    而此处问题的关键,不是嫁得好。是你自己过得好。
    过了20岁,你要出国?找工作?还是继续学习?
    过了20岁,你离踏入社会已不远,你是否已做好准备?
  5. 答应自己的事情就要做到,该对自己狠的时候就要狠,切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连。
    对自己心软,成不了大事。
    过了20岁,要学会面对现实,不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中。
  6. 如果你正在恋爱,请不要毫无保留地付出。
    你全盘托出了,拿什么留给你以后的老公?
    女孩子,要学会对自己好一点,别把所有的都投资在所谓的“潜力股”身上。
    无论什么时候,看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌。
  7. 做人学会圆滑。
    过了20岁,别人不会再把你当小孩子,你的错误已不会再有人包容。
    对不喜欢的人和事面带笑容,是我们必须学会的恶心。(Very true HATE THIS.)
  8. 感谢所有伤害过你的人。
    然后在20岁生日的那天,对他们挥挥手,说声,我不再恨你们了。
    仇恨留在20岁以前的青春,你长大了,你要正视伤害。
  9. 别玩什么非主流。你又不是肥猪刘。
    还不如学着化化妆,不是烟熏妆,是大方得体的淡妆。
    一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过,一个化淡妆的女生,企业会优先考虑。
    为什么?因为你连自己的容貌都不着急,你会着急什么?
    世界上没有丑女人,只有懒女人。
  10. 减肥,说说就好。
    到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候,你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩 一系列疾病同时伴随你。
    说不好还有胃癌。
    过了20岁,你要知道,你以后的路还有很长,健康的身体是你走下去的保证。
  11. 对挑拨离间的人,不要揭发他。
    等他演完一出出好戏,拼命演,拼命圆。
    然后告诉他,其实你什么都知道。
    接着,笑笑,离开。
  12. 是的,你已经达到法定婚龄了,可是你并不用着急着嫁人。
    或许你正在热恋,你们山盟海誓说要一辈子。
    可是你才刚过20岁,你不知道一辈子到底有多长。日子是过出 来的,不是想出来的。
    结婚,不是两个人的事情,是两个家庭的事情。老一辈讲的门当户对,并不是毫无道理的封建思想。结婚,你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的信念,所以挑选的时候丝毫不得马虎。
    恋爱,就把它当成恋爱。结婚,慢慢来。
  13. 轰轰烈烈的爱情,留给一字头的年龄。(I have one more year to try this! *despo)
    你已经20岁了。别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事。
    什么夜不归宿,当街吵架,以死相逼,一哭二闹三上吊。
    那些疯狂的事情,那些年少轻狂,我们经历过就够了。
    过了20岁了,学会淡定从容。
  14. 男朋友,宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞而恋爱,不要因为跟风而恋爱。
    过了20岁了,学会对自己的人生负责。
  15. 自己喜欢的东西,不要奢望别人买。
    20岁,不管你以前是否玩过暧昧,你已经过了暧昧的年龄。
    女人要独立,经济独立是基础。
  16. 如果一个男人对你说他配不上你,相信他。
    一个自己说配不上你的男人,一辈子也不会配得上你!
    珍惜与能力无关,与钱无关!

最后,随时给自己准备一个微笑,告诉自己,我可以!

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A bottle.

>> Tuesday, 6 April 2010

I have a bottle inside me in which I keep my negative emotions. I would like to say that the capacity of the bottle is rather large.





But these negative emotions are like cotton candy.





Like everything else, they are were minute and compact; but they are filled with air and thus become rather huge. So the bottle gets filled up fairly quickly (do keep in mind that the bottle is L A R G E).

But there will definitely be one cotton candy which is too big to fill the bottle. It squeezes and squeezes into the bottle. And when it succeeds in entering the bottle - it fails. The cap of the bottle shoots up to space, and the cotton candy squirts out like fountain - except less pretty.






What a mess!

And these cotton candies have to be translated into something in order to disappear. It's like magic, but less magical and more real.

Being the owner of the bottle, I am the one who decide in what form these candies should transform into.

I could've chosen gluttony, or movement, or death





I chose words. And I chose to let you know.

Thank you, darlings, for your concern, at least I know I am not alone LOL I know you will be there when I need a listening ear (or a few!), for me to repeat the same thing over and over again like a cacat-ed recorder :)

So now the bottle is empty, and I am fine :)

Yes dear May, I do eat with mutated cockroaches (supervisor said it's due to herbs I think we can believe him cuz he's a food tech grad LOL) while sitting amidst two pots of cooked eggs and rows of raw eggs. I am not crazy!

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Muchness

>> Friday, 2 April 2010



The movie is just okay, in my opinion. While it's worth the price of your ticket, it doesn't matter if you give it a miss.

Johnny Depp is charming as usual. Aiyooo I tell you I was like "awwwww" when Alice wanted to return to the real world because the Mad Hatter likes her so much.

Awwwww :)
The Mad Hatter (to Alice):You used to be much more..."muchier." You've lost your muchness
I thought, have I lost my much-ness as well?

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I think I'm so thoroughly exhausted, I cling on to my bed like a koala to the Eucalyptus tree. (Except less cute.)

So in the end I didn't jog. And skipped my planned shopping and movie trip. (Due to other reason.)

I had cheese tart this morning OMG HEAVENLYYYY.

Can't believe selling tea and eggs can take a toll on my Ever Ready battery. -.-;;

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Some guy said to me yesterday:
I like your smile *grins

I was serving tea you see, trying to hit the impossible sales target, then this old uncle with brown senget teeth walked past. And then he stopped in front of me. I thought he wanted to sample tea so I held my tray out and as I held my tray out the fucking uncle leaned forward so damn fucking close and said "I lke your smile" wtf and I can see his brown senget teeth ugghhh. I may be despo but I'm not that despo thank you very much.

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YHY was the only one who played April Fools joke on me and it failed in such a way only I can achieve.

He told me he wanted to commit suicide, I though he was depressed due to some things he was trying to hide so I wasn't concerned about his suicidal notions. And when it turned out to be a prank all I did was "haha damn fail."

Haha damn fail.

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